Why is hate so rewarding?
The most common approach to conflict resolution is to start with facts we all agree on.
Those seem to be evaporating in the face of disinformation campaigns by all sides.
One fact should be easy — we’re all human, and have the same fundamental needs: food, shelter, love, respect.
But even that obvious fact fails in the face of continued hatred.
Examples abound, all over the earth: the middle east, India vs Pakistan, northern Ireland, the US north vs south (now Republicans vs Democrats).
What makes hate so rewarding?
**********************************************
August 12, 2023
My AI buddy, Claude 2, has this to say about the matter:
Hate often feels rewarding in the moment, but fosters harm in the long run:
- Anger as a rush – Feeling righteous anger and hatred can trigger a dopaminergic rush or high similar to pleasure. This provides temporary satisfaction.
- False moral superiority – Hate can give an illusion of moral superiority over the hated group. But this is founded on false premises.
- Ego protection – Having an enemy protects the ego by attributing blame and failure externally rather than internally.
- Peer acceptance – Expressing hate can build bonds and acceptance within a group that shares the same prejudices.
- Scapegoating – Hating a targeted group provides a convenient scapegoat to simplify complex problems.
- Habit forming – Like any dopamine stimulus, hatred can become habitual and addictive in the brain’s reward circuitry.
However, hate also comes with costs:
- Empathy erosion – Dehumanizing enemies erodes empathy, compassion, and humanity.
- Toxicity – Hate poisons relationships, social fabric, and mental health.
- Violence risk – Hate increases rates of violence, conflict, and human rights violations.
- Misdirected energy – Time and energy towards hate could be directed at personal growth.
The temporary high comes at a great cost to oneself and society. While hate may feel rewarding at times, the harm always outweighs the fleeting benefits. True satisfaction comes from compassion.